There were quite a few times that I took down what I had posted on my blog. I still remember what I had written, but I no longer want to remember them, nor to bring them back as topic of conversation. But what happens recently is tiring me out. And no matter how much I probe into the matter, trying to seek a solution to it, it does not help.
Being around people is all about relationship. This is also probably a post that I would take it down suddenly. The matter, concerns my friends. These two have been on a cold war since last Thursday. I tried to make them reconcile, but the problem is, there is no one willing to be the one who apologise first. Is pride that expensive until you can't bring yourself to say sorry in front of your friend? The matter is very small and the reasons both parties have given are childish. Can't you two just settle it between you and not drag all of us into it?
See why I'd probably take this down? I bet my friends are reading this. Worse still there are haters reading this, wishing that my friends would never reconcile and our relationship would become from worse to worst. It's too mind bugging, to be constantly at each others' presence but to act hostile towards each other. I want to act like there's nothing wrong, but I am better to know that ignorance makes illness worse.
Now, what should I do? Can't you girls forgive each other already?
Because when it comes to one point that one of us give up the friendship, there won't be a valid relationship anymore. Do you want that to happen? Please, it doesn't matter who is the right one. It matters who is the keeper of the relationship.
It's your friendship. Keep it.
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